How to choose a preschool or day care in Virginia
Start with your child's age, because it rules out more programs than anything else. Some Virginia day care centers take babies and keep them through pre-K. Others start at two or three and run half-day preschool classes. Each listing here shows whether a program takes infants and toddlers and whether it runs a pre-K class, so you can cut the list down before you make a single call.
Check the license, or the exemption
The Virginia Department of Education licenses child care centers and larger home-based programs, and inspects licensed programs at least twice a year. Some church-run centers are religiously exempt, and some smaller homes are voluntarily registered. You can look up any of them, with its license or exemption and its inspection reports, in VDOE's Search for Child Care tool, linked from childcare.virginia.gov. Publicly funded programs also take part in VQB5, the state's quality system, which publishes ratings each fall. Treat a rating as one clue among several.
Know how you will pay
If your family needs help with the cost, the Child Care Subsidy Program pays part of the bill for eligible working families at participating providers. Families apply on CommonHelp or at their local department of social services, pay a copayment, and in many localities join a waitlist first. Look for "Accepts child care subsidies" on a listing, and confirm it on the phone before you enroll. If your child is 3 or 4, ask your school division about the Virginia Preschool Initiative.
Questions for the first call
Most schools say little about tuition online, so ask for the weekly or monthly rate and what it includes. Ask whether there is a waitlist and how long it usually runs. Ask about hours, and whether early drop-off or late pickup costs extra. Ask whether meals and snacks are provided or packed from home, and what the day looks like: play-based, Montessori, Reggio Emilia or a set curriculum. If summer matters, ask whether the school runs a summer camp for current families.
Then visit
Tour two or three schools in the same week so the comparison is fresh. Watch how teachers talk to the children, how clean the rooms are and whether what you see matches what you were told on the phone. A short list built from this directory, a phone call and one visit each will tell you more than any rating on its own.